Part 1: The Who, What, Where, When, Why & How of My Stalking

Updated December 2024

For 9+ years (since 2015), I have been hounded – STALKED – by an individual and her associates. Note: This person, their parent(s) and their associates have been at this before this individual was married, and before, during and after the first and subsequent pregnancies. More in Part 2: The Early Years.

It’s become necessary for me to share my story because of what’s happened where I live, work, with friends and family and in the community.

This person is supported by a parent, possibly both, with contacts in the community, and their associates have done a lot of very bad things since 2015. It has now become evident that one of the parents has taken the batton and run with it, directing and orchestrating many of the activities.

In future blog posts I will elaborate on different elements. However, here is an overiew

• Contacted my clients and made false accusations and convinced different employees to help. They not only contacted my clients and their employees but countless professionals and people of name and note in the community.
  

• Hacked my cell phone countless times; when I turn on location services, this group knows my whereabouts and show up where I am, especially in the community but also where I live on Brickell. Not just in the neighborhood, but in my building. More on this in the section that follows.
  

• Followed me when I get coffee, go to the movies, out to dinner with family, shopping, at the gym and wherever. Sometimes it’s from the location tracking and other times its from word of mouth or text messages via WhatsApp or other platforms.
  

• Broken into my apartment (3 times), TWICE in 2023, and placed surveillance equipment in different areas.
  

• They have hacked my home security systems and used them in particular ways.
  

• They contact contractors, including my locksmith, to get copies of my keys. This worked because they were able to get in.

• Contacted neighbors, family, clients, business associates, colleagues, and friends - and family. I cover neighbors and clients in other posts. It's quite substantial.
  

• Hacked my social accounts, contacting individuals and family members I communicate with or add as followers.
  

• Contacted someone they know at my banks and have insight into the activity on my accounts.
  

Tracking & Hacking: If it was only just the phone

This individual and her associates engage in location tracking. In fact, this is a common trait of stalkers. See the list at the end.

What’s interesting is that it’s come to our (my team) attention that this individual tells people I track. Nothing could be further from the truth. I don’t know how to track a phone but I know when I’m being tracked.

Below is an overview of just some of the tracking and hacking, and it’s not just of my phone.

• I can’t turn on my location services of my phone. I turn it off on my computers. I’ve changed phone companies and changed my equipment a lot. I no longer use an iPhone because of the tracking is so bad.
  

• Calls from prison & the doctor. This person and their associates got a hold of my second phone number, which I got because I needed to have some freedom to come and go. They gave my phone number to a prison. I started receiving collect phone calls from a prison. Some might say it was a wrong number. Think again.One of their associates kept mentioning "prisoner" in conversation. It wasn't just once, it was a dozen or so times. It was so much so, I asked this person – a physician – what's the deal with mentioning prisoner all the time? I figured it out when I happened to pick up one of the calls and noticed a dozen other calls from the same number in the call history. That's also how I knew this physician had been contacted and was helping. (We think they recruited this doctor by claiming I talked bad about them. Now I didn't and hadn't. However, that's part of the recruiting strategy.)
  

• Using the security system in my building. This individual and their associates either hacked into my condo building’s security system or someone has given them access. They know when I come and go from building. (mentioned above). We detailed a variety of silly, pathetic and sad behavior.
  

• On a recent birthday (July 2023), my phone was hacked. I didn't know until this happened: I had gone to get my haircut at a new place. While I'm getting my hair cut, one of my neighbors (who lives on my floor) shows up. Now he would tell you it was coincidence. But it turns out he told someone at the salon, something about keeping an eye on me and could they help. One of the staffers mentioned it to me.
  

• Building Security at my mom’s building. This person and her associates track my arrival and departure from my mom’s building. They haven’t so much hacked the security system. They hacked the condo staff. We know who. In fact, when I leave the building chances are I’m going to encounter one of their associates.
  

• My Ring doorbell. When my apartment was broken into the third time the Ring doorbell was on. Yet when police arrived, we checked the video and it wasn’t there. They informed me that these cameras are easily hacked. It wasn’t the first time we suspected the Ring was manipulated.
  

• More on Ring: They used the Ring doorbell to determine when I left my apartment and when I arrived. Get this – They somehow knew even when the Ring was off. This is a scary thing. You would think turning off a device would eliminate access to it. Wrong.
  

• Instagram: This person and her associates know my private Instagram account and have frequently – this is incredible – placed ads and boosted posts so that their message appears in my feed. This individual showed up in a post.
  

• Facebook & LinkedIn. This person and their associates contact friends and followers on social media. They contacted my cousin’s daughters this way. We know several have been contacted on LinkedIn.
  

• Microsoft & Google Accounts – Without fail every few weeks I receive emails from Microsoft and sometimes Google with codes to log in into my account. These were not requested by me. Hmm....The latest one came on 2.27.2024.

• We've noticed that when they can't track the phone but know I'm out, they will send out a call for people to go to places I frequent. Case in point: On Feb. 11, 2024, I went to Merrick Park with my mom. Who shows up, one of the original group of followers. Wasn't a coincidence either. He kept peering behind a wall to see where we were. I tried to tell him to stop. Just won't listen.
  

So how have they managed such a persistent tracking campaign? Through contacts and leveraging connections. This person’s father was – and might still be – working for an emergency service department and they have lots of contacts. Plus, this person has means and access to resources.

Why Is This Behavior Happening? 

Presumably, I’m a bad person.

9+ years ago, one of the these individuals started harassing me (more on why further down). This person found out where I lived and befriended several people in my building, including several people who live on my floor. 

This individual and their friends use several narratives to engage and convince people to help in their endeavors. None of these stories are true. Below are the stories being used. I’m not sure if this is all of them, but these are the ones I know. If you know others, let me know.

• I troll for men. I hunt men in the parking lot. I stalk men. I go after married men. 

• I stalk this individual and their spouse. I’m out to break them up.

• I’m a celebrity monger. I hound or stalk celebrities/athletes.

• I’ve done harmful things or talked bad about specific neighbors. 

• I’m [just fill in the blank]. Think of something villainous, and I’m sure I’ve been accused of it. 

• The stories often depend on the person being approached. It will be something that resonates with them.

• I filed a restraining order before the birth of this individual's first child. (Read Part 2: The Early Years for details.)
  

Let me make this clear

I would never engage in rumor mongering, gossip, lies and deceit. I would never do to others what is being done to me. And I haven't done it. I especially wouldn't do anything to harm a child. Never.

Recruiting: Leveraging Contacts & Connections

The people contacting my friends, family, clients, colleagues, neighbors etc., will be either this individual, a family member or one of their associates. Sometimes it’s a friend of a friend that agrees to help. It sometimes it is someone known to the person being approached, be it personally or known in the community or their profession.

The strategy to get people to help is telling one of the stories listed above. Sometimes it's telling a story that might resonate with the individual being recruit. Another strategy is telling people I've talked bad about them - like the doctor mentioned previously.

These are false accusations. These are total fabrications. None of these stories are true. However, the truth doesn’t seem to matter. The individuals who participate in this behavior haven’t questioned what they’ve been told or what they’ve been asked to do. The false narrative helps people justify their role in stalking and in recruiting others to help.

What did I do to prompt this behavior? Why is this person doing this, and why for 9+ years? This is a question I can’t answer. I don’t know what is driving this behavior. I have never done anything to this person or their spouse. NEVER. I stand by this. I would put my hand on a bible and swear on it.

We (my team) have theories about why this person is such an aggressive stalker and why their parent(s) participate. However, I can only tell you what I know. I can tell you that when this person’s behavior started 9+ years ago, they would be the ones showing up in different places. They hacked my computer. They contacted clients. I hired an attorney, filed a restraining order, sent cease and desist letters and even hired a private detective. And then, this individual started using other people – like family, associates, neighbors, several employees that work for my clients, and just about anyone I come in contact with.

The Role People Are Actually Playing

By convincing individuals that I’m a bad person or the one stalking and allegedly doing bad things to any number of people, this person doesn’t need to follow, hack, harass and threaten. These individuals are doing the stalking for them. They, in essence, become the stalkers.

About Stalkers - Why stalkers stalk.

List of Stalking Behavior*: (To the individuals involved, you have assisted in doing all of these)            

• Repeatedly calls to your phone, including hang-ups. (They gave my number to a prison)

• Follows you and shows up wherever you are

• Sends unwanted gifts, letters, texts, or emails

• Damages your home, car, or other property

• Monitors your phone calls or computer use, possibly through spyware

• Uses technology, like hidden cameras or GPS, to track where you go

• Drives by or lingers near your home, school, or work

• Threatens to hurt you, your family, friends, or pets

• Performs other actions that control, track, or frighten you

• Uses other people to try to communicate with you, like children, family or friends. *Victim Connect, an online resource

Next Steps 

• Let me know if you think I’ve said or done something to you. Convincing people I've done or talked bad about them is part of the strategy. Call me at 305-490-8831 and let's talk. If you think I've talked bad about you, I'm happy to talk to you about it.

• If you can help bring these people to justice, give a statement to my lawyer and police.

• If you know more about this but are scared to get involved now that you see the bigger picture, don’t worry. I won’t give you away. Be brave. Step up and stop this behavior. 

I Realize – To the people involved

I’m sure most of you didn’t realize how bad this was. I’m sure you didn’t know that by following me you were part of something much more serious and dangerous. 

Question People’s Motives

You need to question the motives of anyone who asks you to harm someone else and, in the process, asks you to commit a crime on their behalf. You probably don’t think what you’ve done is bad or what you’re doing is wrong, harmful or criminal. This behavior is criminal.

Please contact me if you wish to discuss this further or to make a statement.