Part 3: Where I live

UPDATE: THERE'S A NEW FALSE NARRATIVE AND IT'S ABOUT A CHILD - READ IT HERE – IT'S REPREHENSIBLE New Post: The neighbors in question including the lookouts & more

For the past year, I have been hounded – stalked – by a group of neighbors at my building on the bay on Brickell Ave.

• I have spoken to many of them, sharing my story.

• I informed the manager and president of the board.
  

However, since this behavior has persisted, I thought it was best to inform my neighbors, especially those who aren't involved. It's important for them to be aware of the situation and the extent of the problem.

Stalking Activity

Here’s how the stalking plays out where I live – frequently (this summary could be longer).

• These neighbors receive notifications when I leave the property through the side gates and when I enter through the front entrance. Then they follow me, showing up where they think I’ll be. This often entails places off-property. I’ve told security, yet this continues.
  

• Evening of 3.18.2024 - Most recent stalking. One of my devices is pinging my location. When I went to pick up the mail I encountered several of this group in the span of 5 minutes: the teenage sporty dude, a creepy member of staff, a woman with long hair and a neighbor who parks near me.

  
  

  Day of 3.19.2024 – I stepped out around 12:30 p.m. and encountered an array of guilty parties. Turns out I definitely have a pinging device. There's guy who many years ago smashed the fire hose glass encasement on a floor after a night out drinking. I found out by chance after it happened. He asked me not to tell his mom who lives in the building. I never did. He promised to pay the damage. I wonder if he ever did. The others I'll detail in another post.
  

• The following: Some of these neighbors do some very interesting things when they follow. Some of their behavior is funny because it's silly. Some of the behavior is sad and pathetic. To have been duped to stoop so low, makes me feel sorry for them. 
  

  • To mask their stalking, they pretend to come or go from the gym but then go back to their apartments when they think no one is looking.

  • They walk around with grocery bags. They especially like to use the bags where I shop like Trader Joe's.

  • They take out their dogs. One woman started wearing similar clothes. Since I play pickleball and have worn tennis skirts, she started wearing tennis skirts.

  • More silly stuff is detailed below.
    

• Solicited the help of several members of the condo staff.
  

• My cell has been hacked countless times. When I turn on location services, these neighbors know my whereabouts and show up or ask friends to show up.
  

• They appear to have access to the security cameras. When I go to the condo gym, within 15 minutes several of them show up.
  

• They have hacked my security systems and used them in particular ways. More about this below.
  

• They contact contractors, have gotten copies my apartment keys. This worked because they were able to get in.
  

• My condo was broken into 3 times, twice in the last year. Police have come out 3 times in 2023.  In the first break-in (2019), surveillance cameras were put by my bed and another by my computer. When those were removed, they put one above my front door. o In 2023, my apartment was broken into twice. Things were taken.
  

• Word of mouth: When these neighbors don't have access to my phone because location services are off, they rely on word of mouth. We know that one neighbor on my floor alerts the group when they hear me leave. We all know these walls are paper thin.
  

Why are my neighbors doing this? - History Recap

In 2015, an individual who doesn’t live here started harassing me. This person found out where I lived and befriended several people in the building, specifically on my floor. 

This individual and their Phase I friends use several stories to engage and convince people to help in their endeavors. None of these stories are true, except for the restraining order I filed and the timing. Below are the stories being used. I’m not sure if this is all of them, but these are the ones I know. If you know others, let me know. Call 305-490-8831

• I troll for men. I hunt men in the parking lot. I stalk men. I go after married men. 
  

• I stalk this individual and their spouse. I’m out to break them up.
  

• I’m a celebrity monger. I hound or stalk celebrities/athletes.
  

• I’ve done harmful things or talked bad about specific neighbors. 
  

• I’m [just fill in the blank]. Think of an atrocity, and I’m sure I’ve been accused of it. 
  

• There's something to do with babies. Read it here I filed a restraining order when this individual was about to have a baby, which is true.  When I decided to file a restraining order, I had already hired an attorney and an investigator. Remember, this person started stalking in 2015, before this individual was married and before kids entered the picture.

  
  

  When you fill out the paperwork with the court you have to put the person’s address. I didn’t have that and asked the investigator to look for it. He discovered this individual was about to have a baby.   

  
  

  To be honest, having been stalked for 2.5 years at this point, lost clients, been hacked and had my reputation continuously damaged at their hands, I didn’t care about the birth. This person clearly didn’t care either. They managed to continue relentless stalking and harassment before marriage, and then during this pregnancy and the ones that followed. Remember that.
  

Just to be clear...

I would never engage in rumor mongering, gossip, lies and deceit. I would never do to others what is being done to me. And I haven't done it. I especially wouldn't do anything to harm a child. Never.

Tracking & Hacking: If it was only just the phone

This individual and her associates, including where I live engage, in location tracking. In fact, this is a common trait of stalkers. See the list at the end. What’s interesting, is that it’s come to our (my team) attention that this individual tells people I track. Nothing could be further from the truth. I don’t know how to track a phone but I know when I’m being tracked.

Below is a review of just some of the tracking and hacking, and it’s not just of my phone.

• I can’t turn on my location services of my phone. I turn it off on my computers. I’ve changed phone companies and changed my equipment a lot. I no longer use an iPhone because of the tracking is so bad.
  

• By the way, my phone. This person and their associates got a hold of my second phone number, which I got because I needed to have some freedom to come and go. They gave my phone number to a prison. I started receiving collect phone calls from a prison.
  

• Using the security system in my building. This individual and their associates either hacked into my condo building’s security system or someone has given them access.
  

• They know when I come and go from building. (mentioned above). They have used my Ring doorbell, security cameras in the elevators and the security system at the entrances and exits to the building.

  
  
  
  

  My Ring doorbell. When my apartment was broken into the third time the Ring doorbell was on. Yet when police arrived, we checked the video and it wasn’t there. They informed me that these camera’s are easily hacked. It wasn’t the first time we suspected the Ring was manipulated.

  
  

  They used the Ring doorbell to determine when I left my apartment and when I arrived. This group of neighbors somehow knew even when the Ring was off. This is a scary thing. You would think turning off a device would eliminate access. It doesn't. I removed the device.

  
  

• They had access to security cameras. One day I bought a hot chocolate from the coffee machine on the garage level in my building and suddenly this person’s associates keep mentioning hot chocolate. The only way this is possible was from the camera because no one was around when I bought the hot chocolate. (One of the silly things they do)

  
  

• One day I’m on the elevator and scrunching my wet hair. I’m by myself. Not long after, one of the followers, a woman who lives on my floor and was befriended by this individual, gets on the elevator with me and starts scrunching her hair. We realized they had to have access to the cameras. (One of the silly things they do)

  
  

• The last two bullet points are examples of ridiculous mocking behavior. I'll add more examples here in the future.
  

• Building Security at my mom’s building. This person and her associates track arrival and departure from my mom’s building. They haven’t so much hacked the security system. They hacked the condo staff. We know who. In fact, when I leave the building chances are I’m going to encounter one of their associates while I"m running errands in the neighborhood, buying coffee and playing pickleball.

  
  

Connections

So how have the neighbors managed this? Through the stalker's contacts and leveraging connections. Again, the stalker befriended people in the building dating back to 2015. Also, this person’s father was – and might still be – working for an emergency service department and they have lots of contacts in fire and police departments.

What did I do to prompt this behavior? Why is this person doing this, and why for 8+ years? This is a question I can’t answer. I simply don’t know. I don’t know what is driving this behavior. I have never done anything to this person or their spouse. NEVER. I stand by this. I would put my hand on a bible and swear on it. I did know her spouse before he became her spouse or fiance. Read more about how this all started in Early Years blog post.

In blog posts parts 1 & 2, I mentioned how this person got to know people living in my building and on my floor. This person established these relationships in 2015 - at the very beginning. This person and her associates have been at this before this individual was married, and before, during and after the first child and the others that followed.  More in Part 2: The Early Years.

We (my team) have theories about why this person stalks However, I can only tell you what I know. I can tell you that when this person’s behavior started 8+ years ago in 2015, they would be the ones showing up in different places. They stalked. They hacked my computer. They contacted clients. They showed up places where I was.

I hired an attorney. I filed a restraining order. I had cease and desist letters sent to people who helped. And then, this individual started using other people – like many of you. Like many of my neighbors.

Neighbors Turned Stalkers

By convincing my neighbors that I’m a bad person or the one stalking and allegedly doing things to any number of people, these neighbors are doing the stalking for the person behind all of this. This person doesn’t need to follow, hack, harass and threaten because these neighbors are doing it for them.

What It All Boils Down To

To the participating neighbors: Your coordinated, persistent, and aggressive behavior is called aggravated stalking, and it’s a felony in the State of Florida.

• You’ve engaged in defamation of character by spreading lies.

• Given the hacking of my phone and security systems, you’ve broken many other laws, too.

• Don’t forget the break-ins, robbery, and placement of surveillance equipment in my condo.

• You’ve violated my privacy, security, and home.

• You violated the security of the community where we live.

• You’ve hacked not just my security systems but the security systems intended to keep all of us safe.
  

If you can do this to me, what’s to stop you from doing this to someone else?

Next Steps: 

• Let me know if you think I’ve said or done something to you. Call 305-490-8831
  

• If you can help bring these people to justice, give a statement to my lawyer and police.
  

• If you know more about this but are scared to get involved now that you see the bigger picture, don’t worry. I won’t give you away. Be brave. Step up and stop this behavior. 

I’m sure most of you didn’t realize how bad this was. I’m sure you didn’t know that by following me around the building and off-property, you were part of something much more serious and dangerous. 

You need to question the motives of anyone who asks you to harm someone else and, in the process, asks you to commit a crime on their behalf. You probably don’t think what you’ve done is bad and are doing is bad, harmful or criminal. This behavior is criminal.

About Stalking

"Stalking is not confined to physical intrusion; emotional and psychological abuse can also be inflicted. Abusers often use gaslighting, manipulation, and psychological torment to erode their victims' sense of self-worth and independence. This abuse sets the stage for the victim to become more susceptible to further control and manipulation. Stalkers may send threatening messages, vandalize property, or even physically confront their victims to instill fear and intimidate. This constant undercurrent of fear not only paralyzes the victim but also reinforces the stalker's control over their life. This climate sets the stage for an abusive relationship where the victim may feel powerless to escape." – from HumanOptions.org

It's all about dominance.

"Stalkers employ various tactics to assert dominance over their victims, such as invasive monitoring, constant surveillance, and unwarranted interference in personal matters. This need for control is a red flag that should not be underestimated." – HumanOptions.org